Utah MMA Journal: Strength begins with weakness
When I work on my training, it’s pretty common for me to say, “Can we work from position (whatever), because that’s my biggest weakness right now.” Currently it’s my ability to attack from my guard.
I don’t care if I “win”. Heck, I don’t really even plan to. What I do plan to do is improve.
If you’re always working into your dominant position in practice, you’ll be in real trouble when you aren’t in that position all of the time in a real competition. This can be tough though… You hace to be willing to check your ego, as there are always going to be some people you work with who are looking to prove something, looking to show they can “beat” you.
But this isn’t what training is all about. I’m not there to beat you. It’s all about:
Mutual benefit and welfare.
We are weak together. We help each other. We both become stronger.
The only way this can happen is to trust each other enough to check our ego’s at the door, and confide our weaknesses to each other. We must also be willing to give each other advice, and not feeling that we’re growing our competition, but that we’re helping our extended family.
Be willing to be weak. So that together we may be strong.


